Move it like a kid

Young ballerinas

This morning I had some enlightenment around a nagging injury I’ve had. Someone asked me to move in a way that I was convinced I couldn’t. I tried it despite my fears and I freakin’ did it! Why didn’t I think I could do a bent knee Ju Jitsu roll on the floor? Well, since martial arts training  is new to me, it had never occurred to me to do a rolling back kick to anyone’s face before. It just looked painful, wasn’t on the “my body can move in that way” list.  When I actually did the roll, my fears were put to shame, my body didn’t even complain a little bit. A ray of light shone on my sweet, formerly bum knee and its limber future of possibilities ahead.

I once wrote a poem called “Oh, knee of misfortune”. Maybe I had let that story sink in a little too deep, for a little too long and it’s time to reinvent my perception of what I can do, how I can actually move now, in spite of my fears. That my body is actually asking for new information constantly.

Look at this yoga teacher: Bette Calman, 83!

No matter how much I move myself around, my strongest tendency is to move in the same ways that I have always moved, guided by the same deeply seated postural habits, sensory cues, and mental images of my body; but if I can succeed in surrendering to the movements that another person imposes on my body, without my own system of cues and responses interfering, it is possible to treat my mind to a flood of sensations that … [can] indicate what things I have been doing that have produced my aches and pains at the same time as they have reinforced my normal sense of self.” –Deane Juhan in Job’s Body   More about Yoga Teacher, Bette Calman, 83

Some ways to reconnect with your ever changing bod:

  • Join a new class at the gym just to see what it’s about like some Latin-inspired Zumba or a free movement class.
  • Every hour or so just shake your shoulders, your legs and your body. Shake it, shake it like you’re Jell-o.
  • Check out Yoga, Qigong, or Tai Chi. Slower movements with breath to create greater awareness.
  • Give yourself 5 minutes in the morning or evening to enjoy a good stretch. Watch a cat and learn.
  • Sit on a bouncy ball at work instead of your chair.  Try to be graceful.
  • Get a personal trainer session at the gym to check your form with familiar activities or to mix up your workouts a bit. Sometimes these are free!
  •  Eat a meal, brush your teeth or do anything with your non-dominant hand/side.
  • Float in water and be a fish for a while. Feel weightless.
  • Lastly, play like a kid more! Do some silly animal walks with your child, get down on the floor with them and roll around. Dance like you’re new! Watch children romp around and let their wacky wildness inspire you to explore and redefine your experience of your own new and precious body.

Watch this video for some serious inspiration!

Shake it like a three-year-old!

 

We are water.

At a visit with my naturopath recently, this challenge was presented to me: Drink half of your body weight in ounces of water each day. She had said this looking deep into my eyes, sensing that I’m  was an expert water drinker just needing a goal.  As if it will happen because now I know. The truth is that I do have strategies for getting some fluids in but sometimes water just falls right off my radar and I fall short on consistency and volume.  I mean we are talking about some serious water drinking!

It’s really unclear in the field of hydration expertise how much water you should drink, with much debate around the topic, but it’s clear that proper fluid balance in your body is imperative to supporting every system in your body. See the following links for more information about how water works in your body. Think: motivation & visualization while drinking your water. There are also risks to drinking too much water that everyone should be aware of and the actual amount of water that each individual needs to drink does depend on their own body.

http://www.mangosteen-natural-remedies.com/benefits-of-drinking-water.html#Functions

http://www.health-benefit-of-water.com/benefit-of-drinking-water.html

Here’s a list of sweet tricks I’ve compiled from clients, athletes and friends that can help you stay on the water wagon. Get creative with it and add to the list!

  1. Drink water in the morning first thing.
  2. Try adding mint leaves, limes, or oranges to your water.
  3. Get a big drink container that you love and know how many refills till you meet your quota for the day.
  4. Try drinking water at each transition in your day- on your way to somewhere, sitting down to an activity, driving home, etc.
  5. Take drinks each hour on the hour during your workday.
  6. Drink with a straw or mix up how you’re drinking.
  7. Drink water in social situations (you’ll be surprised at how quickly it’ll go down and keep you from other non-water temptations).
  8. Combine habits: Drink water while you’re filling the bathtub, working out, as you sit down to read, on a walk, watching a movie.
  9. When you drink your water, think: “MmmmMm, water!” Imagine the water doing wonderous things inside  of you.
  10. Appreciate how blessed you are to have an abundant supply of clean drinking water available to you on a consistent basis. Give thanks to each sip!

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Chile Earthquake Relief Fund

On Feb 27th at 3:30 am, an 8.8 level earthquake shook Chile to the bone. You’ve probably seen the pictures and can just imagine the damage to shaken buildings and tsunami- swept town centers near the ocean and the heart of the quake. My husband, Felipe, is from Linares and Talca in the 7th region of Chile, fifty miles from the epicenter of the earthquake, about four hours south of Santiago. We were just visiting the area this January and places we just went through are now in shambles along with damage to homes of family and friends that we visited.

Felipe’s family is luckily unharmed but scared because of continued intense aftershocks (his parents slept in their car for four nights afterwards, fearing thier house would fall) as well as the stress and heartache of rebuilding structures in a devastated region. Felipe’s grandmother, Aida Baeza’s, home of fourty years in the countryside is collapsed and they are working to rebuild at least a temporary structure for now to protect the remains from looting.

Felipe has set up a Chile Earthquake Relief Fund through Paypal and is accepting donations. All donations will be allocated 50% to Felipe’s family to help rebuild his grandmother home and 50% sent to local disaster relief efforts in that area, active through March 31, 2010. Below are some pictures of his grandmother’s property (before the quake)  in January.

Anything helps! Thank you, friends!
Update: Thank you so much for your kind donations! Felipe was able to raise $1500 for Chile, $750 going to Habitat for Humainity in Concepcion, Chile and $750 to rebuild his grandmother’s house. So wonderful! Felipe’s family is moving forward with the rebuild for Aida Baeza’s home and the rest of his family’s  homes are okay. Despite aftershocks that continue (still in May!) people are moving forward. I think it’s incredible how tragedy mobilizes a nation and brings people together in bittersweet, positive ways to overcome the stress and heartache. The human spirit prevails!
Aida Baeza outside of her homeAida’s living room
Property surrounding Baeza home

Perspective on Pace

 

What if you could pick yourself up like a chess piece and transport to a part of a world that lives a little slower: like watch the world go by your front porch for a while. As in lie in a hammock after a hard day’s work knowing that you’ve done enough. We’re talking sitting down with your friends for a few hours of idle chat and sharing rather than maybe just a few quick  minutes. What if you could immediately get that perspective on your own pace of life and how it might be affecting you on every level of your life: physically, mentally, spiritually?

After a break that offered me some much needed rhythm adjustment, I’m looking for ways to hold onto the mellow that is so healing to me. I feel like when the time factor is taken out, I’m able to reflect on slowness not just as a concept but as a part of who I am. My body relaxes.
Must we live so fast? What is my rhythm?
Are there some things that can silently drop off the to do list?
How about one thing at a time today?
What are some meaningful ways to shift the flow for a while just to see how it feels?